You may believe that you have all the skills required for your personal growth or for climbing up the rungs of the career ladder. Quite often, you may have proved that you are astute and a high performer. In addition, you may possess an optimistic attitude as well. But despite these things and your bloated ego, if you find yourself in the unenviable situation of having stagnated in a particular position or not being considered for elevation to the next level, you may wonder why it should be like that, why luck has been tyrannical towards you, and what mistake you have committed that is putting a brake on your growth journey.
Unfortunately, you, like several other people, may refuse to accept if someone points out the mistake you are committing. Perhaps, the intoxication of the small successes you have achieved may be blinding you and not allowing you to explore "within" yourself and find the mistake. Refusing to acknowledge that there is some problem with your approach or mindset is the foremost deterrent that is obstructing you from correcting your mistake. If you continue with the same behavior, you may descend into what is known as the sinkhole of mediocrity. This will make you more miserable and frustrated.
The point you should remember is that you may not be committing this mistake consciously. The mistake may have got embedded in your subconscious mind and you may be committing it without your intention. Perhaps, this is yet another reason for your refusal to acknowledge that you have this problem. But regardless of the fact that you are committing the mistake subconsciously, you can be certain that it will weigh you down.
So, what is the mistake you are committing that has caused stagnation in your personal and career growth? The mistake is you have become euphoric over your small successes and got complacent. Complacency is capable of killing ambitions. So, how can you fight this flaw and emerge victoriously? How can you remove the cobweb of "complacency" from your mind and unleash your fullest potential? Unless you do this, you can't lift yourself out of the quagmire of stagnation and be once again on the path of personal or career growth.
There are a few steps you should take to get rid of "complacency." They are:
1. You must check if your goals are clear and specific. There should not be any ambiguity in this. Even if there is a trace of ambiguity in your goals, you are vulnerable to getting confused and committing mistakes such as getting complacent.
2. You should be clear about the deadlines within which you should achieve your goals as well. Deadlines help you in being true to yourself and your actions. If you do not put in place deadlines, you cannot plan your journey towards the goals. Experts advise that you must split your big goals into subgoals and be specific with the dates before which you desire to achieve your sub-goals.
3. Thirdly and most importantly, you must acquire what is known as the "burn-the-boats" attitude. With such an attitude alone, you can tune your mind to work relentlessly and with a laser-like focus.
The above are proven steps and so, you should necessarily embrace them if you want to get rid of complacency. Once you succeed in this, your growth will no longer be some pie-in-the-sky.
